Negativity

Negativity

Wb Gaters! (I said later gaters before)

I need to make a blog about acronyms I use often.
 

So last time we talked about being positive. Yay! This time I'm going to talk about being negative. Why? because they're opposites, and they both deserve to be addressed. Also the balance needs to be retained. (I brought up last time that thing about the Winxclub, darkness & light, yin-yang etc.)

I need to make a reference thing so if I'm talking about an old post I can just put that in

Also I will be making a separate post for depression (a form of
something that is negative) So I wont talk about it much in this one 

Alright so lets check out the dick...tionairy :P Pido: ahem!

¹neg·a·tive

adjective \ˈne-gə-tiv\

: harmful or bad : not wanted
: thinking about the bad qualities of someone or something : thinking that a bad result will happen : not hopeful or optimistic

: expressing dislike or disapproval

Also, tbh, I really don't understand the whole "keep calm" pictures hype, but some I like and that's why I use them.

Positive is good and useful. Negative is bad, harmful, and unwanted.

Can being negative be useful tho? Possibly, probably in a negative way in which you wont like the outcome. Or if you're Eminem and you just make it all make since! Shit when I feel upset/angry/negative he is seriously all I want to listen to. Just put on "kill you" and let me vibe lol. Check out the end for more keep calms because, well, they're funny.

It is so difficult to keep that negative shit out of our minds. It just influences us in such a way that it just keeps coming back to haunt us. normally that is bad but we can sometimes twist it around so that we can extract the goodness out of the badness.

For my writing class we had to talk about the intro to chapter 1 and respond to 2 other people. Someone (Nolan) talked about how life is so crazy but in our dreams we can do w/e we want. "Life is filled with rules and is so harsh, whereas dreams let the mind run wild and there aren’t any restrictions to what you can do." - Nolan brace.


It made me think about what I am writing here and I responded with:

- I like what you said near the end. It is so weird how we are surrounded by all this negative yet we can take that and change it into something amazing in our minds. And then express it through various means. So in that since it makes the negative parts of our life not as bad in the end. They pass and we manage to put that bad part of it in the back of our minds but keep the good in the front and think of that. Even tho the negative hurt us and the pain is still there, if it weren't for it, those amazing thoughts wouldn't have been there either. Man I love how everything has a balance lol. -

I think that sometimes we just need to go through those negative feelings, process them, and get them out of the way to make room for positive ones. Lets face it, we are human. It is ok if you feel upset/angry/sad/confused. Don't let anyone put you down because of how you feel. And don't put up with people who say, "just get over it". It doesn't fucking work that way. Yes, it is something that eventually needs to be gotten over, but you still need to analyze those feelings and deal with them.

Ways to deal:

If you need to cry then cry. If you feel like you need to punch something, grab a pillow or buy a punching bag. If you want to throw something maybe buy a football or one of those nerf balls and throw it outside. If you feel like you need to kill someone! Go play a video game with lots of killing involved, or go on a walk. If your arguing with someone, let that someone know that it is time for a time out and distance yourselves until you both cool down. Otherwise your just gonna end up saying things you regret. you could also listen to music like i have posted, you could write a journal of how you feel, or even just call a friend who you know will listen. There are many forms of expression, that you don't need to pay for, to get your feelings out. With a good friend you really don't need a counselor. (you could also ask me but, the closer to the person you are the better, and I cant guarantee a quick response,)

Ways NOT recommended -

Don't you dare go and touch your gun if you own one. Even if your out camping/hunting and you have your guns with you. DON'T DO IT. You don't want to hurt yourself or others because of your own anger or end up in jail with someone else's blood on your hands.

Same goes for drinking or doing drugs (other than weed. I actually recommend that you go smoke a bowl if your angry lol) If you are drinking while the feelings occur then STOP. if you are on drugs then STOP. if you are around others and feel the urge to hit them LEAVE. Just walk the fuck out! Go for a walk and think.

Breathe!

Ok so your done shooting yourself in the foot lol jk, and still feel upset, but you've calmed down. this is when I really like to write or talk out my feelings. Maybe it is one of those times when its an "I'm right" kind of thing, and that's fine. If you still truly and honestly feel that you are right then ok, maybe try to explain to yourself/have a good mental image, of why. Be clear in your understanding of the situation. But also take into consideration the other persons feelings. Try to find a happy, mutual ground you both can agree upon even if that's agreeing to disagree.

Crying - I should have addressed this in the paragraph above. Anyone who says crying is for girls can fuck off. IT IS OK TO CRY. That sometimes is the first form of expression. Babies cry, why cant adults? Oh because others see that as a form of weakness. WELL FUCK THEM. I don't get how that got stuck in ppls minds. It is a human response. And it does not show weakness. It shows that you fucking give a damn. Wouldn't you rather see someone cry than be completely null to the subject?

Well I hope that this has freed your mind and let things become orderly. If you have any questions feel free to ask. I really enjoy posting these and putting it out there for others. Even though doesn't seam like many people are reading them. I can at least inspire someone and get them on the right thinking path.

<<< For those of you who play Minecraft. I thought this was funny. my brother got me and my bf addicted to it lol.

<<< KILL THE BITCH!

Also be mindful of who you get in an argument with. some people aren't worth your time, and others are worth more than time itself. You don't want to ruin a friendship over something stupid.

Speaking of, if you are mad at someone because they are busy and haven't talked to you in a while. There is no reason to be mad. Just let them know you care, and if they want to talk, they will talk. Not talking to someone shouldn't hurt you. I know you miss them and want to talk to them but let them realize what they've missed. (I will elaborate more on this in a post about friends)

<<< pido: as long as its not me!!!

Whip out that chainsaw in your head and slice em open!!!! raaarrrrrr!!!!!! (that's what I do lol) >>>

Off with their heads!

Die motherfucka!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pido: M calm down. calm d...ahhh!!!!!!!!!

Muahahahhahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




In case you haven't heard the song or would like to hear it again cuz your pissed and wanna kill! Here it is :P

M's Beauty Routine/Review Part 1

I've watched a lot of ppls "beauty picks" on YouTube. And while I was taking a bath I was inspired to make my own. This is more so aimed towards what you would use in the shower/bath tub and briefly on styling hair. Also this isn't just for girls, this is for guys also! or any other genders :P

Also I have really oily skin and I'm very picky of what I want to put on it. And I know, I know. Your really only supposed to wash your hair like once or twice a week. Well, I don't give a fuck, I wash mine everyday because I sweat hella bad every night and there's no way I'm going style my hair while greasy. That's disgusting. So I hope this will apply to those who have other skin types or will help you in some way.

Id like to real quick touch on why hygiene is important. It's just like how you're told to wash your hands often. Cleaning your self helps keep you from getting sick, disease, infections and spreading bacteria/viruses. It makes you physically and mentally feel good. Your appearance obviously improves and so does your smell :). Note: When you put on makeup ALWAYS put it on a clean face.

Ok first before we get into the actual soaps n stuffs we need some tools:

• Sponge or loofah: 

Aren't these cute :P I have a Fiona flamingo one from Walmart :P Actually I normally just use a regular one from the dollar tree. I like the larger ones rather than the small ones. But that is more of a personal preference. You could also use ones with a stick or handle. The stick ones are mainly for your back tho.

• Nail scrub brush:

No, I don't always use this every bathing session. But they are handy for if you garden often or really need to clean your nails. I like this kind because of the easy handle grip. good control.

•  Rubber ducky (Pido):

Pido: Because I am everywhereeeeeeeeeeee!!! ahahhahahaa

lol I have some mainly for my son but I've always loved rubber ducks :P

• Towel:

I prefer a plush towel. I know some people don't like that because then it feels like its not dry. (or they don't like using fabric softener.) But I'd rather feel something soft against my skin than an old rough towel. But if all you have is a rough one then that's fine too as long as its clean and doesn't smell like mildew >.<



Now that we have our tools. We're ready to start washing!

My Fav's - 

• Dove Deep Moisture or the off brand:

This specific line from dove is amazing because it leaves your skin clean and soft, not dry.  I NEVER have to use lotion. (+ lotion makes me feel more oily, I don't like it) I normally buy the off brand just because its cheaper. But it does the same results. The exfoliating one is good also but if you use it everyday you will begin to dry out because your skin wasn't made to have that happen everyday. That one is more so like a use once or twice a week. I actually haven't tried the sensitive skin one but I would like to and I'm sure it works well also.

•  Garnier:

Out of everything I've tried so far Garnier is my favorite. I like how they use natural oils from fruits and seeds. I like how my hair feels (in my hands while washing and afterwards). Here I'm showing triple nutrition, but the other ones I've tried I like also. Just depends on what you're looking for out of your shampoo and cond.

More on cond: If you have really dry hair, bleached, dyed your hair. I HIGHLY recommend getting a conditioner that comes in like a smaller round container. A deep cond that you leave in for 5 mins. I use one every time after I dye my hair. also any cond that you get in a hair dye package feels great also. I'm not recommending any specific kind because all that I've tried so far give me what I'm looking for. So I don't have a favorite yet.

•  Olay pore minimizing cleanser + scrub: 

Ok this is one of those things I feel like I cant live without. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND YOU TRY THIS SHIT OUT! Its about 6-7$ and you can sometimes get Olay coupons. Ok so take a minute to feel the texture of your face. Just feel the groves, feel the oil, know what that feels like. THEN! (I like to wash my face with regular soap first and then this) wash your face thoroughly with this. Then feel the texture of your skin afterwards. OMGG smooth, clean, refreshing. It's amazing. nuff said.



 

•  St Ives apricot scrub or the off brand -

I love how this makes my skin feel also. I usually use the off brand of the green one. It is good for if you have in grown hairs. Rub the area with this to help make them come up to the surface. I even like using this on my arms, shoulders, bikini line. I don't like the kind at the dollar tree. It doesn't leave me feeling as clean.


Other alternatives that I like -(no images for these)

• Aussie - Makes my hair feel just as clean as Garnier. I say whichever is cheaper at the time, go for it.
• Olay - Another good soap. soft skin.
• Tresume - A lil cheaper, good for if your on a tighter budget. Still a good clean feeling but not as much as Garnier. Also! the white one is good for mixing with hair dye. I'll write a journal about why and that process later :)
• Suave - I put this here because if I were like extremely broke this is what I would buy, but I'd probably wash more than once. And also cuz I like the vanilla one :) *sniffs Mikeys hair*
• Axe - lol yes. I use my bf's soap. I like how it lathers up but it can leave you a little more dry.

What I've tried and didn't like -

• Vo5 - Doesn't feel like its doing anything. I still feel greasy. Even my friend David says he doesn't like it. Sure it might smell good and is cheap but that doesn't mean its doing its job.
• Washcloth - If you dont have a sponge I actually recommend just using your hand. On a washcloth it feels like the soap just stays there and doesn't lather up enough.
• Baking soda - http://www.diynatural.com/homemade-shampoo/    My friend was talking about trying this out. This is a good site, and the idea behind it is good. But I tried it and I just didn't like it. But hey, give it a shot and if you don't like it you can always wash your hair with your normal shampoo again.

What I would like to try -

•  Redken:

I love their 23 hair spray and the 06 rewind. But it's expensive >.<







Now that your all clean. Time to get out and put your hair in a towel. I say this because, 1) If you put on a shirt right afterwards it will drip on it and get wet and annoying. 2) Unless your going to go straight to blow drying your hair, put it in a towel.

Also: If you do plan on blow drying your hair you need it a certain % wet. Not soaking, but not starting to dry either. So it's best to just towel dry it or put in a towel for a few mins until you get to it. Then begin the hair styling process, but that is for another journal :) (part 2)

I hope you enjoyed this and learned something. GIVE THE OLAY STUFF A TRY! If you don't like it, your fucked up jk jk! Then give it to a friend as a gift, and they might like it :)


Hmm I normally add a video...

ERNIE IS NAKED! with his pido :D

Positivity

Positivity

I know this might be a lil cliche, but what better than to start a (I'm not used to "blogging" I'm used to writing journals. So therefor, I'm calling it a journal) journal! with something broad and worth while. I like to start my journals based on some pictures/quotes so that when you're reading it will help you get a better feel for what the hell I'm talking about and they just plain make us feel better, don't they?.

Ya know, I get distracted A LOT, so excuse me if i digress too much, I will eventually come back to the topic.

Well hello there! This is the first journal I've put out in quite some time. I updated my first one, even though this feels like a first. It is a first under "words from the wize". I really hope by creating this that I can help others that might be struggling through things going on in your life and you just need something to relate to. Something to help the chaos in your brain to calm down, even just for a min.

Alright so positiveness. Lets Analise this. What the fuck is positiveness!? Dictionary.com gives me way to many answers for this so lets check out Merriam-webbster. (I prefer dictionary.com normally)

pos·i·tive

adjective \ˈpä-zə-tiv, ˈpäz-tiv\

: good or useful
: thinking about the good qualities of someone or something : thinking that a good result will happen : hopeful or optimistic

: completely certain or sure that something is correct or true

in other words

lol. no but really, put on a tutu or something. XD







Every time I see the word adjective I think of grammar house rock. I had an old school computer game for it and that seriously taught me all of that shit. So if you're having problems in English and cant remember things like nouns, adjectives, verbs, conjunctions, interjections, etc PLZ look that shit up on YouTube! catchy tunes. Will stink in your brain!

<3









And just because I'm talking abt tutus doesn't mean this is just for girls. I'm sure the guys would like to see your lady wear a tutu right? lol. what I meant is the message I am trying to convey is for everyone and so is the humor. Ok maybe not for the kids. Other than the ones in tutus :P jk jk

So positive means good or useful. Or in math it is on the right from 0. When you buy a computer or a type of tool you buy it because it will make your life easier. Why would I want to sit here chopping veggies when I have the slice and dice 9000! (yes, pun intended, but I really don't know wat that's referencing to. wat is over 9000!)














I appreciate your patience. I feel more like I made this journal for the humor more than the meaning.

Thinking about the good qualities is very under estimated nowadays. If you really want to try to see the good in something, no matter how negative, you will find it. I am always trying to extract the good out of something that might be seen as bad or even someone who is an ass.

I remember watching the Winx Club once and they talked about you can always find some light in the darkness, and you can always find some darkness in the light. (wish I could figure out which episode.) Then it made me think about a yinyang. and the black represents darkness, the white represents the light. There is a balance, and that needs to be maintained.


Also something I've noticed and thank God for: Good ALWAYS wins over evil. Ex: Sara is beating Zammy in battle of Lumbridge on RS :) lolol


Well, I hope I accomplished something by writing this. I will add more to this if I think of something else. See you later gaters!

This is where id say something like check out my yt channel or something but I don't have much on there other than silly vids :P

<<< listen to both the Japanese (weird and cuteness overload) and English version of this song on yt! omgg I love ittttttttttt. Here is the English version that I like the most. Kyary Pamyu Pamyu is the shit! her and Nicki Minaj should team up :D

 JUST LISTEN :D >>>

 <<< Here is the original :D